Sarah gives Hagar to Abraham as wife. From Genesis 16:3-4 commented by ASV and questions

שלום חברי   רוח הקודש

Faith contains patience, we are neither smart nor good

God promised Abraham descendants, but years went by and Sarah did not get pregnant, Sarah wanted children so she thought that maybe she could help God a little bit by her made Hagar. Abraham went into Hagar as Sarah suggested, and she bears a child to Abraham. Then Hagar treated Sarah with contempt instead of being her made.

Obedience and faith

God does not need our help, God wants our obedience and faith, not our struggle, and it only messes up things. Hagar having a child with Abraham brought a lot of trouble.

Questions to consider

  1. What does God want from us?
  2. What is the most common way to communicate with God?